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21 days to finally define, embody,
and enact your boundaries
with clarity and confidence.

YOUR CONSENT COMPASS

If you’re here, you’re probably familiar with overwhelm and anxiety,
you might be neurodivergent or queer,
or any number of other reasons that have reinforced that overriding your
inner signals is the safest way forward. 

You've learned the scripts,
you know you need to say no,
but you find yourself saying 'yes',
shrinking in, and bracing for impact.

You already know
consent matters.
What you don't know
is how to find yours.

embodied, intuitive consent
– from the body up

Somatic Nervous System Healing – so your body and brain can finally communicate again
Daily Videos – for building internal trust, finding consent clarity, and communicating clearly 
Community Shares – so you know you aren't doing it alone, and you can ask any questions you have
Lifetime Access – so you can come back to your favourite parts

WELCOME TO
YOUR CONSENT COMPASS

Access Your Consent Compass Now

After

living without urgency,
pressure, or overwhelm

intuitive self trust and the
ability to orient to your dreams

clear boundaries, values,
goals, and inner signals

Before

freezing, panicking, spiralling
and burning out

unsure and wobbly boundaries
and "no" feeling like a bad word

no idea what you actually want
or how this became your life

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Your Personal Consent Compass Map

Internal Repair and Self Trust

Applying Consent to Everyday Life

Building Ongoing Trust in Your Body

Your Consent Compass

Module 6

Orienting Towards, Instead of Away

Working With Old Patterns

Locating Boundaries Through the Body

What Boundaries Really Are

From Accommodating to Aware

Module 4

Evolving Boundaries Over Time

When Boundaries Are Challenged

Working with Overexplaining

Consent-Based Boundaries

Expressing Boundaries with Confidence

Module 5

Micro-Moments of Presence

Understanding Overwhelm & Numbness

Rebuilding Body Awareness

Why Consent Begins in the Body

Coming Back Into Your Body

Module 1

Practicing Choice and Consent

Pressure, Obligation, and People-Pleasing

Your Internal Consent States

Framework for Embodied Decisions

The Consent Compass Method

Module 3

When You Don’t Know What You Feel

Understanding Yes, No, and Neutral

Separating Sensation, Emotion, and Story

Feelings as Information, Not Problems

Making Sense of What You Feel

Module 2

when you have neuroscience on your side

it only takes 21 days
for everything to change

Access Your Consent Compass Now

Plus!

sign up by October 11 and get 1:1 text support with Sam for 21 days as you move through
the program

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To have said yes to a thousand things on the
checklist of "shoulds",
and ended up in a marriage, city, and life
I never truly wanted.

I know firsthand how much can change
when embodied consent enters the chat. 

Internal consent changed my life,
and it's the very first thing I teach to
every person who works with me one-on-one.
Now, it can be yours.

Access Your Consent Compass Now

welcome
to the first step back
to a life that feels
like yours.

To have said yes to
a thousand things on the
checklist of "shoulds",
and ended up in
a marriage, city,
and life I never
truly wanted.

I know firsthand how much can change when embodied consent enters the chat. 

Internal consent changed my life,
and it's the very first thing I teach to every person who works with me one-on-one.
Now, it can be yours.

I know
what it's like
to look around
and not know how
you ended up
in this place